20 smart coffee chat questions to ask

Not sure what to say in coffee chats? Use this cheat sheet!

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💼 Topic: 20 smart coffee chat questions to ask

  • Type 1: Icebreakers

  • Type 2: Spotlight Questions

  • Type 3: Role-Related Questions

  • Type 4: Opportunity Questions

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20 smart coffee chat questions to ask

Ever walk into a coffee chat thinking,

"What the hell do I ask?"

Or,

"Wait, why did I book this chat again?"

Most people fall into the trap of having coffee chats because someone told them to.

The result? A one-time conversation that doesn't lead to anything.

But if you take the time to prepare thoughtful questions (even if it's only for 10 minutes), you can create a lasting connection.

One that might lead to a job opportunity later down the road!

Which is why I spent a few hours over the weekend creating a cheat sheet just for this.

It has 20 questions divided into 4 categories that you can use in your next conversation.

Feel free to skip to the bottom to download a copy of it right away 🙂 

Type 1: Icebreakers

These questions are asked in the first 5 minutes of the conversation.

You’ll ask these to:

  • Ease into the conversation

  • Share details to make others comfortable

  • Set up a rapport before the actual questions

Type 2: Spotlight Questions

These questions are asked in the middle 20 minutes of the conversation.

You’ll ask these to:

  • Show genuine interest

  • Make the conversation engaging

  • Make the other person feel heard/valued

Type 3: Role-Related Questions

These questions are also asked in the middle 20 minutes of the conversation.

Mix these in with your Spotlight Questions.

You’ll ask these to:

  • Get the behind-the-scenes of their job

  • Realize if you’ll like or hate the job

  • Understand what success looks like in their field

Type 4: Opportunity Questions

These questions are asked in the last 5 minutes of the conversation.

You’ll ask these to:

  • Set up follow-up chats

  • Get referrals

  • Get interview or job offers

💡 Bonus Tip: Don’t ask for referrals or job offers in your 1st chat; instead, set up a 2nd or 3rd chat to solidify that connection - then ask.

Download the cheat sheet!

20 Smart Coffee Chat Questions 134.07 KB • PDF File

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